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Marriage Rebuilt OS
Real-time relationship guidance — not therapy
Let's start with you.
Takes 3 minutes. Both personalities get mapped — yours and your spouse's. Your profile saves automatically.
Step 2 of 9
You are...
Shapes every script and how the app speaks to you.
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A man
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A woman
Step 3 of 9 — About You
When something's bothering you, you usually...
Be honest — this shapes how the app coaches you.
Step 4 of 9 — About You
Your natural style is more...
How do you show up at your best?
Step 5 of 9 — Now Your Spouse
Now let's map your spouse.
The more accurately you describe them, the better the guidance becomes.
They are...
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A man
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A woman
Step 6 of 9 — About Your Spouse
When conflict hits, they usually...
Think about the last few arguments. What did they do?
Step 7 of 9 — About Your Spouse
Their natural style is more...
How do they generally show up in the world?
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They feel most loved when...
This controls every "We're Good" action.
Step 9 of 9 — Last One
What's hardest right now?
One honest answer.
● Profile Saved to Your Device
Hey there.
Assessment
Free Resource
We're Good
Keep the momentum.
Do This Now
Pick the script that fits
Something's Off
What does it feel like?
Pick the closest one.
Your Move
What to do
Say this to open the door
We're In It
Get briefed before you go in.
2 questions. Full plan. Read it once, pocket the phone, execute.
Where are you right now?
READ · POCKET · EXECUTE
Battle Plan
Your Full Battle Plan
Your 6-Step Plan
If Things Go Wrong
Stop First
Regulate before you engage.
Going in flooded guarantees it gets worse. This takes 3 minutes.
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Leave the room now
Go somewhere else — bathroom, outside, car. Separate your body from the conflict source.
2
Slow your physiology
Sit down. Both feet flat on the floor. 5 slow breaths — 4 counts in, 6 out. Your heart rate needs to drop before your brain can think clearly.
3
Say this before you leave
Say this
"I need 10 minutes. I'm not done — I just need to slow down first."
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You handled it.
Don't reopen it tonight. Give each other 20 minutes before talking again.
Your Results
Your Connection Map
Your 3 Focus Areas
Debrief
Debrief Complete
What happened
Scripts that would have worked
The Operator
Calibrated to both your profiles.
The Operator
Set Up the AI Coach
Powered by Anthropic's AI. Your key saves to your device only — never shared.
1
Go to console.anthropic.com and create a free account. You get $5 free credit to start.
2
Click "API Keys" in the sidebar → "Create Key". Name it anything.
3
Copy the key (starts with sk-ant-) and paste it below.
Library
Your books by Richard Martinez. Progress saves automatically.
Free Assessment
Books
Video Library
Short lessons. Add your own YouTube videos.
Your Profile
Marriage Rebuilt OS
Seven Areas
of Connection
Rate how connected and satisfied you feel in each area. 1 is disconnected — 10 is thriving.
Seven Areas of Connection
Your Results
Connection
Profile
Where to Focus
Weekly
Relationship
Pulse
Track your connection week by week. See the patterns. Know where you are headed.
This Week
Weekly Check-In